Porn ... For You or Your Partner ...

I say embrace porn - and embrace your partner at the same time - whoever that may be! Not the nasty stuff, but the general 'trying to hold a storyline while couples are finding lots of reasons to have sex' porn is fun. We're all adults, enjoy your sexual side. I defy anyone to watch a porn film, alone or together, and not get at least a teeny bit turned on?? It's our animal instincts. I hate it when people act all prudish about these things. I wish they'd make some less tacky porn films though. Lets have a Hollywood Blockbuster porn film. Bruce Willis? Johnny Depp? Please step forward . . .

*the prude puts her hand up*

I find it very difficult to discuss these sorts of matters. I'm blushing just typing.
As far as I know, and I never want to know, dh doesn't watch porn. Never has, never will.

It's a sort of "Don't ask, don't tell" policy we have..

*steps away from the thread*

I'm a bit of a hypocrite really. I would be devestated if L was watching it on his own, but I wouldn't mind (actually quite enjoy) watching it together.

I have no problem with porn and the right kind can be enjoyable when watched as a couple or alone.

My OH on the other hand is a total prude. He doesn't like to talk about it, never mind look at it or watch it. All I can say is "Pffft" to his prudishness!

You've really surprised me - I've never heard of a prudish man. You are obviously all the woman he needs

i think if your man needs porn your doing it wrong!

My neighbour is really into porn, he's creepy, we call him gordon the porno gnome cos he looks like a garden gnome and his wife tells everyone about his porn stash i think they think it makes them sound really cool an sexy but they just cum across as a bit sad.

I will admit I have looked at some pictures online but I haven't really got into it, blush! I have no problem with it. As long as my husband prefers me, lol.

I don't mind porn. We have watched it as a couple, he's watched it alone as have I. I would be slightly worried about him looking at porn on the internet though. I'm a bit of a hypocrite on the quiet.

I tink it is disgussting. The peple who are in it are digussting and so are the peple who makes it. YUK! If i found out my hubby was lookin at it i would chuck him out i woud. vom!!

I do agree that if you NEED it in your relationship, there's probably something wrong there. However, I don't see the problem with it if it's something that you enjoy together or take your lead from.

The nasty stuff on the internet though, is something else all together.

I've actually never watched a porn movie. I was vaguely curious in my past but never enough to seek one out and watch it. However, there were plenty of soft core books in my past, starting at 16 with Chances. I love Jackie Collins, she was my sex education!

I have watched porn, both on my own and with partner's lol (Different ones, not several at one time lol )

I think personally its OK, if you enjoy it.

I myself prefer erotic literature and allowing my imagination run wild lol

I have no problem with "normal" if there is such a thing, porn. I've watched it, I know my OH has but we've never watched it together. However, we did indulge in some rather racing IM messaging before he actually moved up to live with me.

Yes my OH and myself watch plenty have to say we are the porn King and queen just the normal straight stuff nothing out of the ordinary it certainly enhances us even more have to say

DH and I sometimes watch porn together - when we get time! LOL! - as part of a "nice" evening.... and I'm quite partial to a bit of erotic fiction too if I'm honest (I like to read a bit of everything!) but I think if he was watching it without me, I'd be a bit gutted.

Talk about double standards!

appetites rarely match, surely a relationship results in supportive behaviours, one has to be very aware of each other's feelings before entering such complex minefield, but freedom of speech & liberties must be defended